Coming of Age for Boys

This three-week program challenges boys to develop into solid young men, like heroes in their own life journeys.

"Our son entered 7th grade quite changed. He was more self-confident with a quiet, inner strength. He showed more leadership by sharing what he had done in class. I think his Journey had immediate impact on him in these ways and will have long-lasting impact as a strong memory and a strong growth experience. He learned to trust himself in new ways." --Recent program parent

For thousands of years, cultures around the world have relied on the wisdom of intentional rights of passage to awaken the mature masculine spirit within young boys. By overcoming various ordeals, initiates bring back the inner resources and external skills that the community depends on for its continued vitality.

In the spirit of these ancient traditions, the Coming of Age for Boys program offers youth an opportunity to live, learn, and laugh in a supportive community of male mentors and peers. Far away from video games, mass media, and pressures of modern society, life slows down and begins to take on new meaning.

As participants sleep under star-filled skies, hike among ancient cedars, and bathe in natural hot springs, the rich inner life of a boy awakens. At journey’s end, each will bring home the exciting and important story of his own adventure, a greater sense of self-awareness, and new gifts to share with his family and his community.

Outcomes of Coming of Age for Boys

• Improved self-confidence
• Skills and insight into teamwork
• Understanding and taking responsibility
• Ability to listen to intuition
• Leadership skills
• Improved physical strength and personal resolve
• Knowledge of natural history of Northwest terrain
• Exposure to Low-impact camping techniques
• Understanding of a healthy and appropriate path to manhood
• Completion of a transformative rite of passage

Family Participation

The initiate’s family plays an important role in the Coming of Age Journey. At the conclusion of each 3-week adventure, parents and guardians take part in a program of incorporation. During this weekend event, parents and young people alike will have the opportunity to see one another with new eyes. Together in this way, they breathe new life into existing relationships, and explore the possibilities of what it means to be a family in the 21st century, with a new family member who is no longer a boy, but a young man.

 Financial aid is available.